Less diagnosis, more complication and waiting.

Since the middle of pregnancy, we have been sent to one specialist after another, all of them saying that there is a potential for problems and complications for Benjamin.  First it was an outside chance of Down Syndrome, among other issues.  Then it was a possibility of craniosynostosis (spelled that wrong in the previous post), or premature closure of the bones in the skull.

As we mentioned in the last post about the whole ordeal, we were waiting on a second opinion, after a diagnosis of craniosynostosis, and praying for a reverse diagnosis, which we were supposed to hear about today.

We got the call a little while ago from the geneticist, and we learned that the diagnosis is pretty much set.  He has craniosynostosis and the next step is to talk to our pediatrician to see who he recommends perform the surgery, which most likely will take place at Wake Forest.  We’ll let you know when we know about the surgery.

Now, however, there is a new wrinkle in the whole deal.  They saw something in the CT scan that has them concerned about a whole new problem.  (I think I’ve heard this before!) They are going to do an MRI because of some concerns they have regarding the corpus callosum, which is a part of the brain that provides communication between the left and right side of the brain, and helps in many other developmental ways.

The next paragraph is for family and close friends (who are probably the only people interested in this level of detail), but feel free to read anyways!

As far as I can tell from my brief research online, (check out http://www.nodcc.org/ for a very helpful overview of possible corpus callosum disorders), the primary issues that involve the corpus callosum are either that it isn’t there (Complete Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum or Complete ACC), that it’s partially there (Partial ACC), that it’s there but notably thinner (Hypoplasia), or that it’s there but in some other way not formed correctly (Disgenesis of the Corpus Callosum).  There is no known cure for corpus callosum disorders. (God designed the brain, and though we have our best people on it, we can’t seem to find a designer/scientist/surgeon that can hang with God…)

They have scheduled the MRI for Monday (a week from today) at 1:30 PM.  Here’s how you can pray:

  • Pray that we would see and experience the gospel (that we have gotten, are getting and will get far better than we deserve, in Christ) even in the midst of this.
  • Pray that we would have the finances to cover all of this.  Praise the Lord for insurance, but we are still scraping the bottom even to pay 10%.
  • Pray that Benjamin will sleep through the MRI like he did the CT scan.
  • Pray that God would guide and direct the doctors, and give them discernment beyond their own ability and training.

Thanks  so much for praying.  God is doing something!

Financial Reality Check.

We are in the midst of the craziness.  The first six weeks of class are upon us, and God is doing what only he can do, inclining the hearts of students to hear the gospel.  It is a great time to be in campus ministry!

But, to be honest, there are a lot of things looming in the back of our minds, and at times making a dash for the front of our minds.  As you know if you’ve been around our blog for very long, issues like Benjamin’s possible need for surgery and our desperate need for more monthly financial support have been a distraction from giving our full energy to ministering to students on campus.  We have experienced a full range of emotions, and have repeatedly needed to remind ourselves of our position in Christ and the truth of the gospel.

The fact is, at the rate we are losing financial support, we will have to pull off campus full time within the next month to raise support (during the most critical time to be on campus).  And if we don’t see dramatic increases in our support, we will have to leave staff very soon.  I have had the verse from 1 Timothy 5:8 (if anyone doesn’t provide for his family, he is worse than an unbeliever) ringing in my ears for the past few months, and as much as I love ministering to students, my primary ministry is to my family.  I have been tirelessly making phone calls all summer long, trusting the Lord to raise the support we need.  We have seen some progress, but not at the rate we really need it.

Please pray with us that the Lord would bring in the support we need, and enable us to minister to students with all of our energy.  I have never in my staff career felt more energized to be in ministry, and I really feel like now more than ever I am working out of my strengths, and seeing God use my meager efforts.  Pray with me that God would continue to use our ministry to change lives, and that he would provide all we need to keep doing that.

Valley Ballyhoo…

We are headed to Western Carolina University today to participate in the “Valley Ballyhoo” (yes, I had to look that up to make sure I was spelling it right…), which is an annual back-to-school celebration where they give the student organizations tables to recruit at.  We are handing out free stuff of some sort.  It should be a blast!  I’ll post pictures throughout the day of interesting things.

Crab mac-n-cheese!?! What kind of communist joint is this?

Jacq, reading an online review of the restaurant we are going to tonight.

In waiting for a second opinion

Remember earlier today when we confessed putting up a front about how well we are doing and often not being truly authentic with how things are going? Well, there was serious temptation to not even post again when we heard back from the geneticist earlier. The doctor who reviewed Benjamin’s CT scan diagnosed it as Cranial Synostosis, but according to the geneticist it would be best to wait until Monday and get a second opinion from a doc who is more of a pediatric expert. So, more waiting. After a few tears, a few cuss words from me (Ben) about the fact that we can’t afford this stuff (that’s right, I am too often more concerned about the price tag attached to things than how they will affect my son) and some more time to think, we are doing all right. Pray for a reverse diagnosis on Monday.